“After 30 years counseling murderers, therapist reveals: No one is inherently evil”

"After 30 years counseling murderers, therapist reveals: No one is inherently evil"

The Complexity of Violent Minds: Understanding Criminal Behavior

The article explores the nuanced understanding of violent criminals, challenging the simplistic notion that some people are inherently “evil.” Drawing from 30 years of experience as a forensic psychiatrist, the author argues that violent behavior is far more complex than popular true-crime narratives suggest.

Using the case of the Menendez brothers – Erik and Lyle, who were sentenced to life imprisonment for murdering their parents in 1989 – the article examines how family members and society view perpetrators of violent crimes. While some see them as “monsters,” the author suggests a more nuanced perspective is necessary.

The author shares personal experiences working with violent criminals, particularly highlighting a patient named Tony, who had killed three men. Through therapy, the author discovered that many violent offenders have experienced significant childhood trauma. Tony’s case revealed how childhood abuse can contribute to later violent behavior, though not every traumatized person becomes violent.

The article introduces a metaphorical “bicycle lock” theory of violence, suggesting that multiple risk factors must align for extreme violence to occur. These factors include:

1. Demographic risks (being young and male)
2. Substance abuse
3. Family conflict history
4. Previous criminal behavior
5. Relationship dynamics with the victim

Importantly, the author emphasizes that there’s no scientific evidence people are born “evil.” Instead, people can enter “evil states of mind” dominated by intense emotions like hatred, envy, and anger.

The good news is that homicide rates have declined in recent years, partly due to:
– Reduced adolescent substance abuse
– Increased technological surveillance
– Cultural shifts opposing violence
– Better support systems

The article advocates for “radical empathy” – understanding criminals without excusing their actions. Through group therapy experiences, the author demonstrates how individuals can learn to take responsibility and potentially rehabilitate.

A compelling example is Jack, who killed his mother during a period of mental illness. Through group therapy, he expressed deep remorse and eventually improved enough to be moved to a less secure treatment facility.

The key message is that labeling people as irredeemable “monsters” prevents understanding and potential rehabilitation. While not minimizing the tragedy of violent crimes, the author argues that comprehending the complex psychological factors behind violent behavior is crucial for prevention.

The article concludes by emphasizing that true change comes from attempting to understand these individuals’ perspectives, recognizing their humanity while holding them accountable for their actions.

This nuanced approach doesn’t excuse violence but offers a more constructive path to understanding and potentially preventing future criminal behavior.